What does it truly mean for a celebrity to āCome out of the closetā in the year 2013? I mean are they doing it for the general public or are they doing it for themselves? I pose this question on the day that WWE star Darren Young tells a conniving TMZ journalist with an Irish accent that he is indeed a homosexual while at the baggage claim of an airport. Wait hold on, let me backtrack a little. Maybe the first thing I should have said is that before today I had no idea who Darren Young was. Now Iāll know him as āthe gay wrestler.ā In a very similar fashion before Orlando Cruz came out of the closet I had no idea who he was but now I know him as āthe gay boxer.ā The latter is probably more noteworthy because I am an avid boxing fan but I will use the former to illustrate my point.
In his coming out video Darren Young answered the question of did he think a gay wrestler could be successful in the WWE to which Young replied; āAbsolutely look at meā¦Iām a WWE superstar and to be honest with you Iām gay and Iām happy.ā Then the interviewer goes into this routine where he acts like heās shocked. If anything heās āflabbergastedā, as he said, because Mr. Young actually told him his personal business. It wasnāt because he didnāt already know that Young was gay before he met him at the airport to ask him that question. Are we to believe that TMZ always asks male professional athletes about their sexual preferences or did the gossip site have a little inside information?
At any rate I wanted to discuss the idea of happiness as it relates to gay celebrities. Darren Young stated that he was happy and to his credit he does look very happy in the interview. With that being said itās hard for me to believe that he is somehow happier now that heās admitted to some dude who works for TMZ that heās gay. I think itās important that any one who is gay, bisexual, transgender, or questioning to tell their family and friends about what they are experiencing and who they really are on the inside. In essence I do understand the need for a gay person to come out of the closet, however, in the case of many celebrities itās not a matter of them being in the closet at all, itās just a matter of whether or not they want to tell millions of strangers what they prefer in the bedroom.
Iām sure Darren Young has done whatever he wants sexually with whom ever he wants for a very long time so why should that impact his professional life in any way shape or form? I honestly think that his life will be a lot worse now. What I mean by that is before some guy from TMZ put him on the spot after waiting for him in the baggage claim of an airport and asked him a question that he already knew the answer to he was able to create his own public image, now he will be dubbed āthe gay wrestlerā for all eternity.
I can see how the interview will benefit TMZ, I can see how it will help launch the career of the mystery man behind the camera, but I donāt see how this will make Darren Youngās life any better.
So what do you think? Drop a few lines below.
-YB











